All about love – Ann Hui

Ann Hui is testing the limits of the Kongers. Homosexual and bisexual are not often being discussed openly in Hong Kong. Comedian Sandra Ng and the come back act of Vivian Chow, together make an easier penetration to the audiences. Telling us the life of being an upper class/ mid-aged lesbian facing the changes in the lives.

Some woman loves babies, while others are in total opposite. Some will change their mind when they get older. People used to say, there is a biologically clock inside every woman, telling them or warning them about their last due date. Their motherhood suddenly appears, the urge of having their own baby rush into their minds consciously or subconsciously. In this case the two leads found pregnant after one of their casual hook ups.

In Chinese culture, we were used to man fooling around being polygamous. However, when it came to woman they seemed to be absolute fidelity. Death penalty would be sentenced if they were caught. Meanwhile being a single mother is always tough. As time change, girls nowadays can be equal as boys. It’s no longer a surprise when you find pregnant without a dad. Nevertheless, it can’t be apply to everywhere, there are still some old fashioned and religious people. I have heard stories of Christians being asked to leave church, as they are feared to set a bad example for the others.

This movie is trying to break so many rules, no matter man or woman. They are given certain roles or rules to follow. What they suppose to do, or not suppose to do. It is about stereotyping and labeling. Homosexual has become more common in today’s world, not to mention those bisexual. However, bisexuals are often being labeled as sluts, as they have a wider choice compare with the gays and straights. The movie mentions an interesting point, what is the difference between the homosexual and the heterosexual, when they are both not accepting or respecting other preferences. Homosexual always whines the misunderstandings of others but they are blind to realize they are no difference.

Most of the people afraid of changes, they feel comfortable in places they find familiar. Whenever there is a slight intrusion, they tend to panic and put up their guards. In order to stay in their comfort zone they banish novelties. They curse it and give them evil names. The leads may encounter similar things in the story. I’ll say why do we have to limit ourselves by living in tons of regulations. Labeling others or even ourselves does no good to us. Sometimes fortunes might be hidden behind our insecurity.

In spite of the fact that the movie warps up so many social issues, it still delivers it’s message lightly rather than too seriously. We are able to enjoy a few good laughs and give a thought of the message. Credit goes to the selection of the cast. A comedian and a come back actress are a surprise combination. Although the latter’s not-so-believable acting may distract you at times, with the aid of the two male leads William Chan and Cheung Siu-fai it fades into a minor issue.

If you think the messages are way too heavy, treat it as a comedy and just enjoy a good laugh.